My philosophy is about maximizing value and being efficient with value. My psychology is about deconstructing for value based on my models. Every event, everything said, every interaction creates value for someone. What I do is deconstruct the event, narrative, action, or thought process to discover who it created value for and who it depreciated to see if it created a psychopathic, a sociopathic or a rational process. It is most meaningful to do this with specific instances and those are the very instances that people project their issues onto and get the most offended at. Which doesn’t make my models less correct, it actually makes them more correct. What you have to remember is that everything that I post more or less is part of the same integrated model and comes from the same perspective and philosophy.
Above is an example of two narratives, that of my ex-gf and that of my own. It demonstrates her narrative based on her behavior and the direction in which she argues. I have been honest about what I am looking for and I have communicated before hand what I am willing to do and willing to exchange. I wanted to teach her my positive rational way of relating to people and she agreed she wanted to learn it. In fact it is the only type of relationship I am open to because in every other relationship we have failed and we have always done it the other person’s way. She will do something for me and then expect to be reciprocated in the way she wants without having an agreement ahead of time, and then when I remind her that what she is trying to buy from me has never been on the table and I have always let her know that, she has a hissy fit. So we see she is trying to passive aggressively force her relationship on me and manipulate me into participating with it. These are all psychopathic processes and unsustainable, they are unconscious and normative. Normative meaning she wants an irrational relationship with me that looks correct to her and looks normal and therefore good to the outside world. It is also the very relationship that I would rather kill myself than be in because I can’t be myself and express myself in a normal relationship which is also a stupid and irrational relationship. Furthermore, if I am not allowed to be myself in a relationship it isn’t really a relationship for me is it?
DECONSTRUCTING THE SUB PRIME MORTGAGE DROP OUT
Probably the most egregious modern subterfuge affecting not only the United States but the world was the sub prime mortgage drop out. Every act of theft in an economy, in a monetary unit effects all of the money in that economy. So it behooves everybody to prevent acts of theft especially on the scale of the drop out. Greed caused it in the form of the banks making money by getting Americans mortgages that they couldn’t afford with the reasoning that the house couldn’t lose. If people default the bank owns the house. The banks eagerly started foreclosing and jacking up everybody else’s mortgage to compensate for the other mortgages being defaulted on. They thought that they would own all of the property, but they never contemplated who they would get to live in those houses when all of America had been ejected from their homes, and in their greed it never dawned on them that maybe a trickle of money is better than the cessation of flow of money all together.
See, money is the life blood of the economy, when it stops moving through the veins the economy has a heart attack. I refer to this type of conquest as “winning against relationship”, it is a stupid and unsustainable form of victory, you depreciate someone in the relationship and expect them to stay in the relationship when they don’t have an incentive to do so. American people are just going to keep getting screwed and abused, which has proven to be the case since that moment. It is a psychopathic process to not act if you should be doing it but to be asking “can I get away with it”.
To add insult to injury, the corporations that nearly toppled all of the financial institutions on the planet in their colossal greed, doing everything for only their own benefit, got bailed out entirely by the american people the one’s that got screwed in the first place. Oh, and they also got a bonus for screwing us so well. It marked a transition from America the Republic to America the Fascist Corporate Oligarchy.
“If the American people ever allow private banks to control the issue of their currency, first by inflation, then by deflation, the banks and corporations that will grow up around them will deprive the people of all property until their children wake up homeless on the continent their Fathers conquered…I believe that banking institutions are more dangerous to our liberties than standing armies… The issuing power should be taken from the banks and restored to the people, to whom it properly belongs.” ~founding father Thomas Jefferson