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Insanity.

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They say that psychopaths don’t reform, they just become more manipulative.  I guess I wanted to see if it was true.  I am still not convinced, I think psychopaths could be reformed with torture, I believe that psychopaths only respect coercive authority.  I think this is because they were over coddled as children when they should have had their asses beat.  Their parents created an environment where they children could manipulate them and rewarded the children for manipulating them, or lying to them successfully.

I learned long ago to observe a person’s actions and their results more than what they tell you they are doing or thinking.  This is one of the ruses psychopaths like to use to manipulate people.  They say this is what I am doing and this is why I am doing it but they keep getting a different result.  When you point out the disparity between what they say and what they do, and force them to rationalize it, you get pretty words, and emotional appeals but the behavior remains consistent and the result the same.

I have long observed all the strategies and techniques women like to use for passive aggressively taking over the relationship, it is amazing that this pattern remains so consistent and women will lie to your face when you confront the behavior and the result.  I don’t know, I just kind of hate my life, it is so obvious to me what is going on.  What women do isn’t love, because it isn’t reasonable, it is greedy and stupid, insidiously evil.  Below is a photoshop I did for L, this is her gambit, her ace up her sleave, she is a histrionic psychopath which means that she manipulates people with an appeal to sympathy.

L is very good at portraying herself as a victim of circumstance tossed about on the sea of fate.  A helpless, hapless, hopeless victim.  But that is the strategy that has been most successful for her all of her life, appealing to others pity by looking pathetic.

wikipedia:

Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) is defined by the American Psychiatric Association as a personality disorder characterized by a pattern of excessive emotions and attention-seeking, including inappropriately seductive behavior and an excessive need for approval, usually beginning in early adulthood. People affected by HPD are lively, dramatic, vivacious, enthusiastic, and flirtatious. HPD affects four times as many women as men.[1] It has a prevalence of 2–3% in the general population, and 10–15% in inpatient and outpatient mental health institutions.[2]

HPD lies in the dramatic cluster of personality disorders.[3] People with HPD have a high need for attention, make loud and inappropriate appearances, exaggerate their behaviors and emotions, and crave stimulation.[3] They may exhibit sexually provocative behavior, express strong emotions with an impressionistic style, and can be easily influenced by others. Associated features includeegocentrismself-indulgence, continuous longing for appreciation, and persistent manipulative behavior to achieve their own needs.

Essentially what the histrionic psychopath does is she makes an appeal to emotion by characterizing herself as a victim of everything causing people to come to her rescue.  She has used this gambit repeatedly throughout her life successfully.  Like Fritz Perls says, “a person will emulate whatever behavior they believe to be dominant.”

Appeal to emotion or argumentum ad passiones is a logical fallacy which uses the manipulation of the recipient’s emotions, rather than valid logic, to win an argument. The appeal to emotion fallacy uses emotions as the basis of an argument’s position without factual evidence that logically supports the major ideas endorsed by the elicitor of the argument. Also, this kind of thinking may be evident in one who lets emotions and/or other subjective considerations influence one’s reasoning process. This kind of appeal to emotion is a type of red herring and encompasses several logical fallacies, including:

In spite of my repeatedly pointing out her recurring patterns in her behavior she refused to change them.  One of the boundaries I laid down for her was not going outside the relationship to make me look like an ass.  On over 8 different occasions since I have told her not to do this I have found out that she was doing it.  The last yesterday.  It’s not just that, she causes these big scenes, she doesn’t participate with reason, she agrees to stuff and then doesn’t act on it or does the exact opposite of what she said.  She expects me to be loyal to her and predictable to her while she does whatever she wants, leveraging herself against the relationship, trying to use the relationship as though it were money, using my reputation while at the same time ruining my reputation.  Psychopaths are insane, they consider themselves as the cause of the good, they are incapable of scrutinizing themselves, punishing themselves, controlling themselves, or being critical of themselves.  They do not respect your boundaries.  Because everything they do is good, they, like your mother have no reason to respect your boundaries, why do you need boundaries?  Are you hiding something?  They presuppose their own moral authority to judge others and to punish others while refusing to accept the consequences of their actions.

A few nights ago was the last straw, once again L was building herself up to throw a hissy fit. She competes with my room mate, an old lady, L feels aggressive towards any women around me, anyway, my room mate doesn’t have to stay in her room until after 8, and it was 7 and L was flashing her eyes at her like an animal like she always does.  L is also jealous of the attention I give to my little 10 pound cockapoo, which is a way of reliving my child hood in a positive way because of having an abusive father and family life.  My only family in the world is this old lady and my dog and L wants to get me away from both of them so she can hen peck and nag me into insanity or submission.  So I asked her if she wanted to cheer up or get out and immediately she started raising her voice, we have a rule, she doesn’t get to yell at me, she communicates reasonably and there are topics that she can’t talk about namely my room mate and my dog.  She compares herself to my dog and my room mate, she is not my dog and she is not my room mate, my relationship with her is my relationship with her, not my relationship with them.  Does she want to be my dog?  Cuz then I will treat her like my dog.

Long story short she says that she will leave but she is going to take all the food she bought, great, I work retail and it is thanksgiving and I had to put up with bitchy, retarded, customers and employees all day so all I want is to enjoy myself in peace.  She leaves and I sit down to watch some tv.  Next thing I know she is banging at the door and window, and yelling at me, oh and she yelled at me in the parking lot in front of my neighbors (3-story apartment building), I gave her all the food she bought and some of the food I bought.  I know she said it just to win the argument, she expected me to back down, instead I helped her load up her car.  So now she is banging on my window and calling me again and again and again.  She eventually stops and I don’t know where she is but come to find out she is over at my neighbors, a 6 foot tall skin head with amphetamine psychosis.  She is using her power play, acting like a victim to get people to come to her aid.

Knock knock.  Who is it?  Skin head.  Skin head who?

I open the door this time, cuz it’s no L, and their is skinhead, I am standing there in my underwear with my right nut hanging out half asleep and he is standing there very excited with electrical tape wrapped around his knuckles.  He very loudly with violent gestures explains to me that he is going to protect my girl friend from me.  I figure he was there for about 15 minutes yelling at me, he was standing inside my door.  I am no slouch to combat but I was tired, and I am getting old, I realized long ago that when a person is this prepared for battle and drunk and who knows what else they are on, that you don’t waste words, you prepare for actions, reason will avail you not.  I am trying to think how I can prevent the conflict from escalating.  If I close the door he will block it and start a fight.  If I ask him to leave nicely he will refuse and start a fight.  If I try to push him out of the door he will start a fight.  Solution, quickly move his center of gravity and lock the door.  I double fist punch him in the chest, to move his center of gravity and then close and lock the door.    At the very least it will create a trail of evidence if he pursues the conflict.  He punches the door leaving two massive dents right about neck level where I would have been.

THE CAUSE OF THE GOOD

What is so fascinating about the psychopathic mind is that it never admits that it was wrong.  It always perceives itself as the cause of the good.  Not only did L not take responsibility, she lied about being at his house, and when pressed she asked me why I didn’t take out my anger on him?  Why wasn’t I angry at him?  Because I don’t have a relationship with him, I have a relationship with you and I expect you not to be an idiot and put me in harms way.  I talked to her briefly the next day and she was still as remorseless as ever and full of venom and vitriol.  Raising her voice, talking over me, still on the warpath.  I told her not to call me, and not to come over, if she came over I would call the police.  Almost immediately the phone starts ringing and 15 minutes later she is knocking at my door.

Psychopaths don’t reform, they just become more manipulative…..

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The Pole Position in Relationship

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Women have a strategic advantage in relationship that they tend to exploit unbeknownst to themselves. These instincts, behaviors, and strategies have been hardwired into the human organic computer through millions of years of neural myelination that have been passed on in the form of cellular memory.  Women don’t think about it, they don’t do it consciously, they aren’t aware that they tacitly interpret and judge reality in the experiencing of it.

The female mind was created to be in relationship with children.  The woman thinks that femininity is superior to masculinity, that is why she is female, as such when their is a disagreement between the male and female she refuses to look from his perspective or compromise or negotiate.  She uses her bias and the feminine bias of society and the children to get her way.  She basically hijacks the relationship and holds it for ransom.

If you observe women’s arguing styles you realize that they can’t get over their programming, they act like a mother in the following ways.  They presuppose their moral authority, they try to control the narrative as though they are talking to a child.  They correct the narrative, changing words, they are not just expressing a different sentiment they think that they have the final edit on the conversation.  They talk over you, interrupt your, nag, whine, repeat themselves, refuse to agree, participate, or move towards the solution or compromise, they quote people outside of the relationship whose opinions don’t matter and they will even violate the boundaries of the relationship by bringing people into the argument who are not part of the conversation in order to take their side.  These are not the behaviors of a person who is in relationship or a person who give equal credence to their partner.  The correlation between psychopaths and the narcissistic narrative has recently been discovered and fascinatingly, my theories show that the female brain, especially in relationship with a male brain acts psychopathicly, whereas the male brain is more sociopathic.

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The female brain operates from moral authority, operating on superficial aesthetic snap decisions as to what looks right and what sounds right.  The female mind is in relationship with its own authority and as such wants to expand and intensify its authority so it uses illegitimate behaviors and strategies in relationship to create a disparate impact in its own favor.  While men think about creating value for the relationship women think about getting what they want from the relationship and in this way women attack the relationship.  Even in a relationship of two women will try to increase their status, social climbing.  Women don’t debate analytically offering evidence,  and reasons, or being open to experiment, they argue emotionally not being able to conceive of any other solution besides the one that they are leaning towards.  They ask leading questions, they try to control the direction of the conversation, they force an emotional moral frame editing the consideration set of the conversation as if they were the arbitrary judge of the conversation and they try to force you to participate with their premise.

The female mind sees reason as a hostile, alien, influence and refuses to participate with it, or she will conflate moral authority with sapiential authority and herself the high priestess of both, but she is absolutely incapable of not being perfectly predictable in her positions and behavior.

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The woman acts as a mediator between father and child, a liaison, a go between, and she can use her position to bring the family unit closer together or to sabotage the father.  She can try to win the child’s favor so that he likes her more by spoiling the child.  If the father competes in this way it is more damaging for the child because he can play the parents off each other and the child starts to think in terms of possessions instead of relationship.  The mother can misrepresent the father to the son and further damage the relationship between them.  Some women go so far as to make the father an object of contempt and ridicule to the children.

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For those of you that are familiar with my theories on emergent properties in collective judgments of societies you might remember this piece I did to illustrate how society protects women from men they are in relationship with.  Note further that the man is basically accepted into a society by having children, that is his root in society, his entrance into a society.  Women use every possible strategy to expand and intensify their control, to make it permanent.

Most cultures have an age of adulthood which has historically ended the authority of the mother and begins the authority of the father and the preparation of the child to be a responsible and functional part of society, which also means that the issues that the mother has protected and instilled in the child through invasive narrative or psychological manipulation have to be removed and the child has to be made mentally and emotionally healthy and a contributor to society.  The child is also at this time responsible for the laws of the land and is no longer able to make appeals to feminine authority in the form of mercy and charity claiming to not be responsible for their actions and the consequences thereof.  The problem with America is that none of the social strictures on women apply and at the same time women are unconscious of their instincts and processes and of the evil they do innately.  They don’t have to scrutinize themselves or criticize themselves and they refuse to take responsibility for their actions or the consequences of them.  At the same time the refuse to confine their attentions and judgment to realms in which they are valid and get good results, completely incapable of not tacitly judging and interpreting everything from the position of moral authority.  Refusing to participate with reason they are passive aggressive and perceive themselves at the same time as being passive resisters and reformers of society while all they are really doing is making society weak and vulnerable.

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THE COVER IS THE BOOK: How Women Predispose Themselves to Manipulation by Psychopaths

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For those of you that don’t know Toms gives shoes to poor kids through out the world for each pair of shoes you buy.  Now lets say that you are a woman and you want a sensitive man.  You see a man wearing these shoes and you think, “OHMIGOD, HE IS SO SWEET AND SENSITIVE!  I LOVE HIM!”  Well allow myself to inform you that I work in retail and TOMS shoes are the most stolen item, I swear for every pair sold another pair is stolen, and probably mostly by young men looking to impress girls with them.  If you don’t actually buy the shoes then that little starving kid in Africa doesn’t get any shoes.  So where did these scathingly brilliant female creatures go wrong in their decision making process?  Superficial aesthetic snap decisions.  

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The book is not the cover!  There is no law anywhere that says that people have to portray themselves accurately!  It is easier to manipulate a woman than it is to tell her the truth because she will whine, and complain, and judge and nag until you change your narrative.  The conceit that one must have to think that everything should be dumbed down accurately for your benefit, that you yourself are not responsible for knowing who is around you, and the presupposition that you would have this shallow relationship with a person based on the fact that they look stunning on your arm and compliment your eyes.

 I am reminded of how my ex-girl friend used to say after knowing me for a year, “where is that sweet man I used to know.”  The reason this is so infuriating is that she is comparing me to myself when she didn’t know anything about me.  Women don’t want to understand their man, they don’t want to put ANY mental effort into their man.  If the man attempts to tell her what he thinks instead of what she wants to hear she will punish and torment him.  It is much easier to lie to them and manipulate them.  Women are their own worst enemy, and they don’t take responsibility for their terrible decisions and they don’t scrutinize their decision making process.  

The male mind and the female mind are mirror images of one another.  Women are oppositelanders.  They think that everything should be done for them and the person should read their mind and give them what they want.  They think that the relationship is about their happiness and they are the judge of the state of the relationship.  I am trying to help women realize how they are screwing up America and they hate me for it.  They would rather live in pleasant oblivion than be self aware.  Wake up women, your world is crumbling around you faster than you know, and you are responsible, more responsible than anybody else.  

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The male mind, in it’s unadulterated un-pussified form, is sociopathic.  He lives in nature and deals with reality, conforming himself to nature so that he can survive.  Women presuppose a pleasant environment which is an artificial environment which is created by someone else for them.  The female mind is incapable of dealing with the ugliness of reality, it would much rather indulge itself in emotional pornography.  Men that haven’t been corrupted, perverted, and turned into women by this disgusting elitist, feminist, liberal western mental environment love that which is true and real.  Truth is beautiful because it means survival and success in the world.  Women on the other hand are distracted by superficial beauty, shiny objects, polish, refinement.  

Take a look at this slob, he is hairy, unrefined, mean-spirited, aggressive, he doesn’t wear TOMS, he eats meat,  he is disliked by just about everybody, he uses crass language, the list goes on.  But, he is a stand up comedian, an author, a linguistic philosopher, a psycholinguist, an ex-stripper, an ex-bouncer, he was given shaktipat initiation by Gurumayi Chidvilasananda picked out of 2,000 people, he is an authentic Jnana and Shaktipat Guru with an authentic lineage, he is an artist, he created his own martial art, he created his own psychology, he writes original philosophic calculus, and he has worked for one of the biggest fortune 500 companies that does the most charity for 10 years.  Can you tell by looking at him? 

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http://bookedallweek.wordpress.com/2010/07/28/book-abandoned-the-painted-bird-by-jerzy-kosinski/

http://terminclature.wordpress.com/2013/10/11/emotional-pornography/comment-page-1/#comment-57

STRUCTURES OF AUTHORITY

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“Power tends to corrupt, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Great men are almost always bad man.” ~Lord Acton

That is what they say but I disagree, I think corrupt men perceive power and reach for it quickly, whereas men that are not corrupt see responsibility and they reach for it slowly and after much deliberation.  While one perspective sees it as a duty and wants to protect others from himself the other perceives himself as incapable of doing anything wrong and perceives himself as always the cause of the good because he was over-coddled by his mommy.  This is why I say that the child and the mother have psychopathic brains.

It is really a tautology of the dunning-kruger effect.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect

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It may be true that you can’t fool all the people all the time, but you can fool enough of them to rule a large country.Will Durant

The relationship between the mother and child is a vertical relationship, an up down relationship, an authoritarian relationship.  The mother is right to manipulate and lie to and spy on the child because she is doing it for his own good and is smarter than the child.  Structures of authority attract psychopaths who are natural social climbers because they feel superior to everyone else, not equal to and while they are not responsible and they never contribute more than they consume they feel that they can never do anything wrong and the concept of protecting others from themselves NEVER occurs to them.

Consider if you will the election between Gore and Bush.  Gore is a multiple genius that helped invent the internet.  His concern was for the nation and not for his legacy.

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Will Durant described oligarchy as happening when a rich ruler was tired of paying for a dead beat relative so he would give him a position where he could extract a tax from the people.  The lazy ruler knowing why he had the position would not even attempt to fill the office faithfully and would take every advantage the position had to offer without making a single contribution.  Eventually, the society would collapse or revolt after it stopped creating value for its citizens and people couldn’t take it anymore.

“When the people fear the government there is tyranny, when the government fears the people there is liberty.” ― Thomas Jefferson

“You have to have a revolution every 200 years to kill off the crooked politicians.” -Thomas Jefferson

Think for a moment about what is happening in Pakistan, people are lying about their neighbors saying that  they are terrorists so the military raids and kills them.  Then some other family retaliates.  This does not serve them, it serves the authority.  It reifies and expands external authority.  This is why in EQUITY IN HUMAN RELATIONSHIP THEORY, you stay in the relationship and succeed together because failing together invites the external judgments and intervention.  Equality under reason, every person in the group and in the relationship, MUST recognize the authority of reason and participate with it or be responsible for the dissolution of the relationship.  And it is the fault of the stupider, weaker, less correct person in the relationship, the psychopath in the relationship that deserves ALL of the blame.  It is not until people learn how to recognize the psychopath and confront their behavior that the relationships and nations that were conceived in liberty will stop going to shit.

25Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. 26“In your anger do not sin”d : Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry,27and do not give the devil a foothold. 28Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.

29Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

http://biblehub.com/niv/ephesians/4.htm

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THE ANCIENT PERSPECTIVE ON WOMEN

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Jesus disciples asked him, “why are you wasting your time talking to a woman?  She can’t even get into heaven unless she is married and pleases her husband.”  Jesus didn’t contest this, “I will turn her into a man!”

Why couldn’t women get into heaven?  Because they don’t have souls, which is to say they are not philosophers an are not capable of remaining consistently rational and letting their philosophy inform their behavior.  Kosher law was aware of psychology before it existed, in a lot of ways the ancients were smarter about people.  Part of the reason women were “unclean” on their menses is because of their emotions going haywire.  it is the same reason why when Israel was a warring tribe if you killed someone in battle you had to sit shiva for seven days before entering the city, because of post traumatic stress.

Buddha said to his disciples, “Now that you have forced me to make women part of my religion it will only be around in it’s uncorrupted state for 300 years.”

From the perspective of the ancients women are the complement and men are the supplement.  This was a reference to the idea that the soul splits itself when it incarnates.

Aristotle, ” A friend is one soul in two bodies.”

Aristotle was making reference to his concept of a philoish, a philosophical brother, but he was using it in the vein of the soul.  In a way it represents extrinsic memory in the form of relationship.

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This was also a reference to a mathematical concept.  Women are the complement because they rely on men to contribute more than they themselves are capable of creating.  Women presuppose a pleasant environment, the oikos, the house, the economy,  and they run the house and they pay the wages and they keep the cellars stocked with wine and they keep the slaves in line and they should confine their judgments and attention to that arena since they are not capable of dealing with the ugliness in the world and making sacrifices and hard choices that are unpleasant on a grand external scale, feminine attention is turned inward, male attention is turned outward, the poli, the police, the policy, the politics.  think about nesting rituals in evolutionary psychology.  The man creates a nest, a surplus to attract a female which makes her feel comfortable that she and her children will be well provided for.

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Women presuppose a pleasant environment and a pleasant environment is not a natural environment, it has to be made pleasant for them by a man.  Nature is not pleasant, the ocean is not pleasant, outer space is not pleasant, grizzly bears are not pleasant.  So if women need pleasantness they should confine their attention and judgments to environments that are pleasant, instead of castrating their men so that they can’t defend them.

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The ancient Greeks found feminine behavior so bizarre that they explained their actions and emotions with hysteria.  They thought that a woman’s uterus moved around in their body causing them to be insane and emotional giving them humors.

In the middle of the flanks of women lies the womb, a female viscus, closely resembling an animal; for it is moved of itself hither and thither in the flanks, also upwards in a direct line to below the cartilage of the thorax, and also obliquely to the right or to the left, either to the liver or the spleen, and it likewise is subject to prolapsus downwards, and in a word, it is altogether erratic. It delights also in fragrant smells, and advances towards them; and it has an aversion to fetid smells, and flees from them; and, on the whole, the womb is like an animal within an animal.  ~Plato

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Women and men were separated in the ancient world not to protect women from men but to protect masculinity from femininity.  So that men could think clearly and philosophically and rationally and defend the polis from it’s enemies.  So that they could work out and train and make themselves smart and strong.

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_hysteria

Generation Y

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What happens when you take an entire generation of children whose mothers divorced their fathers, indoctrinated them into feminine authority, taught them to hate masculine virtues, and cultivated in them feminine virtues?  Incentivized them to be contrary to their natural instincts, rewarded girls for acting like boys, and punished boys for acting like boys?  Well, you get an entire generation of walking abortions, space fillers, oxygen thieves, highly educated morons, You get noise pollution.  A glut of cackling nincompoops with nothing to say that never shuts up.  A waste of bandwidth.

They feel that they win by losing, by being offended.  They establish dominance through attaining victim status.  If their sensitive feelings were hurt they feel some external authority figure should step in and redress the insult.  Mommy saves, fuck Jesus.  The problem is that there is no way to pleasantly tell an idiot that they are an idiot.

The twitter generation has the shortest attention span ever.  Which means they make uneducated superficial snap decisions, these decisions are made emotionally not analytically with the female part of the brain.  That is to say that the cover of the book is the book.  If the book isn’t made enticing form them so that it communicates to them exactly what it is and it is entertaining they aren’t interested.

They feel that they deserve and are entitled to something because they have done all the hard work of wanting it.  Just like babies instead of working, struggling, and sacrificing, they need to be led by the hand and rewarded with candy and kept happy.  Mommy essentially does it for them and they have a sense of accomplishment.

They get a 60,000 dollar education and then realize that life is hard and it is easier to live at home with mommy.  Women follow the direction of their bull dike, feminazi, college counselor and take maths and sciences because there aren’t enough women in those fields and this is obviously on account of some cabal of men that has conspired to keep women out of the maths and sciences which are sooooo fun.  So she becomes a quantum physicist and realizes she can make more money easily by doing porn or stripping.  You know who doesn’t do that?  Men.

They don’t know what the correct answer is, they don’t know how to get to the correct answer but they have been trained like Pavlov’s bitches to choose the solution that is the most liberal, elitist, and feminist sounding.

Paying lip service to science but not knowing how to do it or what it is.  They think that everything they will need to know is already known.  They consume received knowledge from the scientific authority which they trust implicitly, believing authority to be infallible and they feel that they are very scientific fellows.  They can’t make a positive rational assertion, they don’t know what a logical fallacy is, and they don’t know what a cognitive bias is.  Surely somebody would have told them about them if it was important.

This generation it totally unprepared for the world.  They are going to smack into the impenetrable object known as reality and be dashed to pieces.  They are cannon fodder, target practice.  Other culture’s look at this generation and they laugh and shake their heads, I don’t blame them.  My only hope for this generation is that their is some kind of cultural backlash.  that they somehow become aware that something vital was stolen from them and that the generation has some kind of Grail Quest to find that missing voice and perspective that was silenced in their lives, that will make them whole again, no matter how hard or long the journey….

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